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Welcome to my channel! I'm Meredith, a psychotherapist, author, and, most importantly, a human being down to get real on everything...LIFE. I love to discuss themes in therapy, and because of my video on loving an addict, a subscriber requested that I react to Renegade by Big Red Machine feat. Taylor Swift. After that first reaction video, the Swifties swarmed my channel, and the requests came in, leading my channel in a different but welcomed direction. It was a "glorious happening of happenstance." ;) Get ready for some real transparency mixed with humor and warmth.
My book, "Hey Addiction, Thanks for NOTHING: A Brutally Honest Guide to Loving an Addict Without Losing Your Mind" is out on September 15th, 2023
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My book, "Hey Addiction, Thanks for NOTHING: A Brutally Honest Guide to Loving an Addict Without Losing Your Mind" is out on September 15th, 2023
Amazon Link: a.co/d/63Clsxn
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Therapist Reacts To: Hard Times by Ethel Cain *trigger warning-please use discretion-discusses CSA*
Trigger Warning - this video contains content that may cause a physical or mental reaction due to the discussion of child sexual assault. Please take care of yourselves and use discretion.
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Victims of crime have rights that depend on the laws of the location (state, territory, tribe) where the crime occurred. Some of the laws that might apply to you if a person has committed the crime of sexual assault against you include:
Availability of a forensic exam (rape kit) at no cost to you
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I have resources linked for support:
RAINN - Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network
Chat online at online.rainn.org
Call someone who can help at 800.656.4673
Hours: Available 24 hours
1-800-656-4673
Victims of crime have rights that depend on the laws of the location (state, territory, tribe) where the crime occurred. Some of the laws that might apply to you if a person has committed the crime of sexual assault against you include:
Availability of a forensic exam (rape kit) at no cost to you
Confidential access ...
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I CANT TAKE IT!!!!! @TaylorSwift SO HAPPY!!
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I CANT TAKE IT!!!!! @TaylorSwift SO HAPPY!!
Therapist Reacts To: Summertime Sadness by Lana Del Rey *trigger warning* didn't expect this at all
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Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK Crisis Text Line 741-741 and/or 988 to speak with a counselor 24/7. Visit www.samhsa.gov/find-help/988 for more information. In this video, I react to the music video Summertime Saddness by Lana Del Rey. I was not expecting it to be related to suicide and seeing it visually was pretty shocking. If you are experiencing SI, please contact the suicide pre...
TSMWEL is maybe about Ye! Why is he obsessed with TS and taking her down? I have some thoughts…
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Hear me out, I think the smallest man who ever lived is really about Kanye West. Also, I talk about why I think he's been obsessed with ruining taylor for so long. Look up Niykee Heaton. What do you all think? JOIN AS A MEMBER: ruclips.net/channel/UC_xCaXFvlbsYY6MlEvLBMaAjoin WAYS TO SUPPORT: PAYPAL: www.paypal.me/mendwithmere VENMO: Meredith-Bmore FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: INSTAGRAM: instagra...
The Complexity Of Mother's Day - TAKE 2 - Sorry, this part of was deleted!
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The Complexity Of Mother's Day - TAKE 2 - Sorry, this part of was deleted!
The Real Complexity of Mother's Day - I SEE U - IN AWE OF YOU ALL!!
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The Real Complexity of Mother's Day - I SEE U - IN AWE OF YOU ALL!!
Therapist Reacts To: loml by Taylor Swift PLEASE SUBSCRIBE! Angry rant @ end bc I can’t take it
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Therapist Reacts To: loml by Taylor Swift PLEASE SUBSCRIBE! Angry rant @ end bc I can’t take it
Initial reaction to Fortnight music video
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Initial reaction to Fortnight music video
Scratch that. Here’s my new theory
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Scratch that. Here’s my new theory
LIVE react of Lana at Coachella! Tuesday, April 16th @ 7:30 p.m. EST! btw, filters are insane-scary
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LIVE react of Lana at Coachella! Tuesday, April 16th @ 7:30 p.m. EST! btw, filters are insane-scary
Therapist Reacts To: Protector by Beyonce *can't stop the tears*
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Therapist Reacts To: Protector by Beyonce *can't stop the tears*
Therapist Reacts To: 16 Carriages by Beyonce
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Therapist Reacts To: 16 Carriages by Beyonce
Mere!! I love your content and would LOVE to see you react to "Coffee" by Chapell Roan, is a gorgeous song and so full of meaning. Hope you can, love your videos!! ❤
For me I’ve seen this episode but still love the show refers to like a favorite show that has a flop episode . Like that one thing doesn’t ruin your view or feelings on the show as a whole
Vibes I get from this song is totally about COVID-19 pandemics, and the "you were there" I thought maybe were her fans, cause at the folklore long pond studio sessions Taylor talked about how she thought it was impossible to make music but she did it anyways and her fans were very supportive
The person is 9 but treated as 18?
React to ‘Please Stay’ by Lucy Dacus ! i think you’d love the message behind it. She wrote it about her friend/gf. It’s so beautiful
Triggerwarnings were found to not be working.
I think he is more in love with the spotlight of being her boyfriend than in love with her. He has famously fatshamed women, he and his brother giggle over vile misogynistic jokes... No. To me this is toxic lovebombing. He knows she wants nothing more than public display of love and he delivers in a way that seems calculated. But I hope I'm wrong.
I find her music more cathartic rather than "depressing" though and the themes of these songs shouldn't be considered "taboo"
Omg....shouldn't this GAME justhave ENDed two years into it... thats WHAT eye did but eight money years MORE?? Wow i thinK we have a Batman movie here😉
If Taylor needed a guy who was able to make their personal life performative, she definitely shouldn't have dated Joe and definitely not for 6 years. But she probably wouldn't have if not for the hits to her reputation, life & career during 2016 & throughput their relationship. Dont make big decisions when you are in high stress/trauma mode. Joe not marrying her was probably the best decision for both their sakes. Imo.
😮 ... 😂 Reverand Doctor Philippe "ShocK" Matthews and his guest explain these happenS a bit more in detaiL. .if you ger a chance to check him out on his Very informative, well researched RUclips podcasT on them greeks...excuse me while i go shed some moOretears...gotta Lover. taylor😅
Please react to “Wildflower “ and “The Greatest” by billie 🥺🙏
Thank you for making me feel seen and understood. It means so much. I resonate so much with both Dear John and Would’ve Could’ve Should’ve. I appreciate your perspective more than you know
Your reaction is very justified because the subject is so sensitive in itself. I had a friend who died by suicide last summer. I read a comment that said that this is about one of Lana's friends who ended her life during a summer and hence, the name because now, every summer she thinks of it. I would know :') I think about some frames of the music video, that are repeated multiple times and it makes me think of how it feels to lose someone. Some memories, more than others, keep replaying in your head during the aftermath and you just can't seem to get them out of your head. It's very disturbing, to say the least. I hope you're feeling better, much love. <3
Telling someone to get over the loss of a child is the absolute worst thing you can ever say and it makes me frustrated to hear some of these women saying that they were being pressured or rushed by family/friends to get over it as if it's soo easy. The truth is, it's never going to completely go away. The best you can do is support them always, on the worst days you need to just be there. Stop telling people how or when to feel. There's no roadmap and everyone deals with loss differently.
more lana plzzz😪
God bless you all 😊
I read that she also had a long affair with Mick Fleetwood when they were a band, so it wasn’t just Lindsey cheating. They weren’t married, but they were both having their way, it seems.
I had to stop listening her music because slowly altered my life. I was sad, anti social and unhappy lately because of her music and i couldn't stop playing them. Her music is very dangerous specially if someone is weak !
Why Jason & Ky had to leave: Jason had an event to get back to…
Taylor plans everything about her shows. This was fully Taylor’s idea.
I don't know if you've read the epilogue that Taylor wrote for the physical copies of the album, but she refers to this period of her life as a "manic episode" and I think this song really fits with that depiction because the whole thing is her very matter-of-factly listing what we as the audience can perceive as red flags, but then she excuses them and says "who else decodes you? Who else knows you like me?" as a justification of staying in the relationship. I think the sigh she does right before singing "Everyone we know understands why it's meant to be" is very telling of what the tone of the song is meant to be. She's trying to convince herself that this is fine, but deep down she knows it's not normal to feel like losing a relationship would make you want to unalive yourself. She sees the red flags but she's choosing to ignore them rather than be alone. I also think "I Can Fix Him (No Really I Can)" is a good partner song to this one to really get the vibe of what she's trying to say about how toxic her mindset was when she was with him.
Please please please react to "hope is a dangerous thing" by Lana
It's so heartwarming to see something happy happen to anyone ❤ I know we don't know her, but it feels like she deserves a win
this is top 2 off the album for me! IM SO EXCITED you finally did one!!
This song references "Lolita", another song by Lana. In this song she says she wants her cake, she doesn't have relationships with boys because she has a man, but she's actually too young for him. Young And Beautiful makes clear her fear of losing this man because now she's had her cake (this could mean she had a birthday, probably 30) and now she's scared of losing this man because she knows he only likes of young girls. Hope this helps. Love your channel 🖤
I'm always skipping this song, and Cassandra, don't know why
The vulnerability it must take to record a song like this! She always blows me away. Even if something is embarrasing or painful, she keeps it real.
When I saw that you posted this, immediately I was like- omg the wedding ring line in the bridge!!! Bc yes he was totally leading her on and playing her bc he knew that is exactly what she wanted, and it's horrible and it's heartbreaking He love bombed her and then left her It's a whole darn red forest at this point😂
the concept of hard times in regards to “preachers daughter” the album title, is that our narrator is the daughter of a preacher, who has conflicting feelings about whether she wants to keep looking up to him (praying id be like you) or cut him out of her life (im tired of you still tied to me). this song is so devastating and if you listen chronologically with the rest of the album it’s also masterful storytelling.
Spent the last couple of days watching all of the clips and reactions I could find of Travis and Taylor on stage! I loved every version! Travis is a role model for how you treat and support your significant other. They both deserve the obvious love they have for each other! (P.S.- Just my opinion, but ditch the guy who thought doing a face-time was too much work!
Also the attachment and struggling with her view of the abuser you were describing, when she says “praying I’d be like you doing all of the things that you do and I still do and that scares me” is actually because the abuser in the story of preachers daughter is actually her father.
This was amazing, family tree or house in Nebraska next please. They’re heart wrenching as well especially house in Nebraska but not so triggering like this one lol.🤍much love Meredith
FINALLY THANK YOU
When you said its almost always someone you knew I just went yup and thought of my stepfather it’s always those closest to you at least in my case it was! I really liked this song but hearing that part she can’t escape him god that hit so hard because even though I am out of that situation that trauma is still part of my life today people say move on but how how does one move on I lived it for years its almost like its engrained in me i guess that’s why im in therapy now so thats a step ❤
You should do Ethel Cain’s “Golden Age” album. Its only 5 songs and so goodddd.
MH wanted to see if he could destroy TS. Dark Triad personality - Sociopath! I think about his timing - what a crude dude. I have been involved with this type and as hard as this is to wrap our heads around - these monstors/demons take great pleasure and joy in destroying others. MH love bombed then TRAAUMA-bonded TS and then ghosted her for his own amusement and pleasure...AND he did this to her as she was just getting started on a world tour. So happy Taylor met Travis right after all this nonsense.
I think it´s very understandable at the time that she fell for his toxic love bombing, she had just spent 6 years with a gaslighting prick who had made her feel so small, unseen and insecure, and made her question her entire life, career, personality, humour and most of all her intuition etc.So she was an easy target for Matty to manipulate. But thank God she now has found herself again and trusts herself again and that is why she could manifest the amazing partner she has now, who loves and amires her, loves goofy side , her drive, her empathy and sees her. I am so happy she is happy and healed now ❤ A lot of people also miss the genius funny way of describing Mattys toxic self sabotage mode when she says he ate " 7 bars of chocolate" and is a tatooed Golden retriver, because chocolate is toxic to dogs.
Please react to Tropico by Lana. I love your channel ❤
He smoked weed, got the munchies and then ate 7 chocolate bars. He seemed to be a different person stoned.
I think I saw something about Taylor relating this song with the situation with Scooter Braun (?)
can you react to genesis by raye? love youuu
A very surface level and inaccurate description of Jehovahs witness people.
Smoked then ate 7 bars of chocolate to me just says he was stoned with the munchies.
The 1975 have a song called “Chocolate” and “Paris”. If you wanted to read a lot into the Matty Healy reference camp it could also be interesting that Paris is where Taylor debuted the TTPD section of the Eras tour, also how Post Malone is dressed in the lab coat and trousers in fortnight- Matty had an almost identical outfit on a tour, the Jehovah’s Witness suit line (Mattys notorious outfit of choice-black skinny tie and skinny cut suit), asking for substances from her friends and being ghosted-his experiences with illicit substances is extensive (see “in public showed me off; then sank in stoned oblivion”). In the black dog “when someone plays The Starting Line (band from 2000s) and you jump up/ But she’s too young to know this song….old habits die screaming” he covered that song. He also has a love of type writers (he’s previously mentioned this) and of course the CHARLIE PUTH ref-in 2018 he tweeted how much he liked a track of Charlie’s feat. Boys II Men. People forget that they actually met in 2014 and have gone on and off since then. I’ll admit, I’m a huge 1975 fan, been to their concerts, and love his writing. I can see where they would easily work with each other when it comes to composition and writing but their personal lives and experiences could (and obviously did) cause some issues.
Curious if you’ve done bigger than the whole sky yet - that song to me sounds like it was about a lost child but I’ve herard other interpretations
Yes, she did. She said a friend that had lost a child told her about it and how much the friend identified with it (whether the song is actually about that or not, no one knows) That’s what’s so awesome about music, how we can all relate to it in different ways.
I had a feeling, as a person who is also dealing with mental illness, that the line "they told me all of my cages were mental" kinda sounded like someone comes to you and says 'oh, but, why are you feeling so bad, everything is fine, this is thing is only inside your head, you can get get rid of it', like, depression or anxiety or addiction, is something we could simply realize is been droven by thoughts and feelings there aren't real, they're 'only inside our heads', like our "mental cages", because I get that a lot from people who don't understand the diseases...
He whines about this song not being popular, but it’s not even a good song by any measure. The lyrics are so stupid and the melody is boring. He is an absolute dick.
Love this video!! Toxic was definitely a word that came to mind when I heard this song. Unrelated but where is your necklace from?? It's stunning!😍